A small tip for pregnancy

As a soon to be second time mama, my tip for pregnancy is:

Give yourself grace, and be kind to yourself.

Pregnancy changes so much of yourself, and your body and there really is no way to prevent it. I know how hard it is to be told at your first appointment how much you’re “expected” to gain during pregnancy just to turn around and double that.

You’re going to change. You’re going to get bigger. You’re going to get cranky, and tired and hormonal. Pregnancy rage is so real, and so rarely talked about. You aren’t crazy, you’re just growing a human and let’s be real, that’s actually kind of insane if you think about it :sweat_smile:

I didn’t “bounce back” after my first, and I highly doubt I will with my second. I have stretch marks everywhere. Behind my knees, my arm pits, my stomach, quite literally everywhere. And you know what? That’s simply proof that I did something AMAZING and grew my best friend from scratch.

I gained 65+ pounds, went up quite literally 10 pant sizes (which I call BS because women’s clothing sizes are a scam) and you know what? Some days I care so much about it. Some days I cry because I cannot find anything that fits me. But you know who doesn’t care? My tiny little human who just wants mama to get dressed and go run around outside.

Be so gentle on yourself during this season of life. You may never get your old body back, but that doesn’t mean you have to hate your new one :heart:

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Your post makes me want to cry! So beautifully said and so real! Giving birth is a beautiful thing and leading up to it there’s so much happening in our bodies! These stretch marks should be a badge of honor because it means you did something amazing! :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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Yes! I thought I wasn’t going to get any, and then they all popped up in the last two weeks :laughing:

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Haha! Honestly I was so scared to get stretch marks and so self-conscious about it! When they appeared I was so mad haha! But fortunately my husband tells me any time I’m down about them that he loves them and thinks they’re cool :joy: that helps a lot! :rofl:

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Every time I complain my fiancé just keeps telling me he thinks I look better now :sweat_smile::laughing:

Postpartum is even worse on those that have medical issues. I will never really bounce back. I am still trying to give myself some grace.

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Well said :heart:

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Love it sister :heart::heart::heart: congrats to you!!!

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Your post is so beautifully written and the picture speaks 1000 words! You are doing amazing mama and congratulations on baby number 2!

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Wow this is so beautiful and true! :face_holding_back_tears::face_holding_back_tears::face_holding_back_tears:

I’m on the verge of tears because I can relate to this oh so much. My son just wants to play and some days I spend 15+ minutes trying to find something I feel comfortable in. No matter what I always end up in leggings and a top. :melting_face::face_with_peeking_eye:

As moms we definitely need this reminder to be nice and kind to ourselves. :two_hearts:

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It’s so important to love your body now, so it doesn’t rub off on them later :pleading_face:

Thank you so much friend! :heart:

Thank you :heart::heart::heart:

I agree!