It’s currently 1:40AM and Im still awake and barely in bed ! It’s just not fair that everybody gets to be in bed all nice and comfy while I’m STILL UP washing, cleaning, feeding the baby, washing bottles and pump parts doing EVERYTHING !! But no help like at all /: I don’t know how to tell my partner that he needs to step up a tiny bit more cause I’m at the point where I’m about to break I’m so tired all the time and I just can’t anymore 
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You must be so exhausted! Please talk to your husband about helping you a little bit. Or maybe there’s certain things that can wait until the next day. It would suck if one day your body just has had enough and you pass out because you’re so tired while watching the kids. I hope you are able to get some rest soon 
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You can’t do it all momma you need rest too. Try talking to you husband or giving him little task that you need help with.
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Oh mama! You need support you need help. You are not meant to carry this load all by yourself, my heart goes to you and it honestly breaks a little. I wish I could teleport just to help with some dishes and cook you a hot meal. I hope your partner can take this with grace and understanding. He may not even realize how burnt out you may feel! I hope things get better till then 
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I’ve tried talking to him but I don’t think he seems to understand /: but we’re getting better thank you 
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I’ve tried but sometimes I feel like it goes in fro one ear and out the other 
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Thank you 
I just feel like men don’t dont understand regardless no matter what we say 
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Unfortunately, I think a lot of guys are like that. They just don’t understand how long it takes to do these things. Cleaning and keeping a baby alive sounds simple on the surface, but as we know, there’s a LOT involved
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There really is men will never understand until they are the ones alone with the babies 
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It can definitely feel that way sometimes
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