Before I Became a Mom

Before I became a mom, I was first a nurse. Besides emergency medicine, most of my time spent as an RN has been with pediatrics! I love being a nurse and caring for tiny humans. I genuinely love my job-holding tiny hands, advocating for little ones who haven’t found their voice yet, and even supporting parents when they need it the most.

Since having my daughter, I have taken a huge step back from my role and work very part time so I can be home to raise my own. I have had a job since 16 years old and taking this step back now has helped launch me into an identity crisis. Most days when I’m home and don’t leave the house, I feel like I’m simply “mom”, not RN, not wife, not friend or sister- just mom. That feeling of my life having been flipped upside down while the world keeps spinning. I don’t have the right words to express how incredibly grateful I am for the title of mom, there are definitely some days I miss my work. I know I’m making the right choice by staying home to raise my baby, but I miss that sense of accomplishment and feeling like I was making a difference in the world. Does that make sense? Anybody else feel that way? :face_with_spiral_eyes:

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I feel that way too sometimes but we are doing the most important work raising our babies :grinning_face:

Just saw a post from a mama who said motherhood has added to who she is as a person and I think that’s a beautiful way of looking at it! Instead of it completely taking over who we are we can let it contribute to our overall growth as women :heart: don’t know if maybe thinking it of that way might help​:slightly_smiling_face:

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I get it completely!!:heart::heart::heart: which job is harder​:rofl::rofl::rofl: both are I bet!:face_blowing_a_kiss: congrats momma

You’re definitely not alone in feeling this way! Sending love your way :growing_heart: