Something that helped me out so much today was my sister washing my baby’s bottles 
I got to shower in peace ! And bottle are clean ! Best feeling in a while !
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Thats nice of her. I’m glad you got yourself some relaxing shower 
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She is very kind. Glad you got some time to relax
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Been thinking about you momma how are you doing? I’m so glad your sister was able to help you And let you have a moment to yourself and cleaned the bottles for you! She sounds really sweet!
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That was so sweet of her! Sometimes the little things mean so much! Aww baby boy looks so happy playing with his food! How have you been?
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That is amazing of her. I’m glad you have her and were able to shower!
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It was awesome ! Got to use a shower steamer too 
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Yes she is I’m gonna take her to get her nails done for helping me so much
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I’m doing okay /: not the best honestly but trying to stay sane for my boys my mom took me out the other night but I just still feel so sad 
I feel like it’s all my fault
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I’ve been okay trying to feel better and stay strong but really been having ups and downs I feel sad but I feel so so much anger towards him 
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Yes she is awesome !
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It’s ok to not be ok! This is a big life change for you and it takes alot of adjustment to get through it because It messes with your emotions and mental health and you already have to go through that postpartum and the situation overloads that and it is a lot to process/take in. Take it one day at a time And enjoy those sweet boys and please do not blame yourself because it was a selfish choice that HE made and HIS actions are to blame he should have never done that no matter what problems yall were having and that is on him not you! Yall are going to be ok and it will get easier just lean on your family support system and take it day by day!
How have I missed so many of your post I thought I was on it!! Yes so happy you got a shower as well!!! You deserve the support mama
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Thank youuuuu
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That is perfectly normal. I left my abusive ex after being with him for 7 years, and I was angry and didn’t trust men for awhile. I think it took me a few years to get to the point where I was okay again. It’s one of those things where time will heal the wound. In the meantime, all you can do is your best and try to distract yourself, but still talk about it sometimes so you can work through it. You definitely don’t want to bottle it up inside. 