Getting out of my comfort zone

My wish is that I would not be so shy and be able to get out of my comfort zone and be a positive light and make a difference in people’s lives. My oldest daughter got her social butterfly personality from her dad and I struggle! She has really made come out of my shell a lot because she talks to EVERYBODY :joy:

One thing that has helped me to show a little kindness is I buy stickers with a positive message or bible verses and let my kids give them to people when we are in a store and you can tell that it really means a lot to people sometimes. This Momcozy community has been helping me as well because I get to talk to moms going through some of the the same things that I have and it’s nice to be able do that and understand what they are going through and give insight on what helped me when I was in the same situation.

OneWishADay

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I used to be super shy until my mother passed away. Suddenly I just didn’t care anymore and if people didn’t like me then oh well. I didn’t really go out of my way to talk to random strangers in stores until my daughter was born though. She makes it a point to wave and babble at people while we shop! There’s so much conversation with people I don’t even know. I don’t even have a choice! :joy: I love that you have positive stickers for your kids to give people. That’s such a sweet idea!

That’s beautiful. You’re already making a difference, and your kindness is shining through your kids in the sweetest, most meaningful way. :sparkling_heart:

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Thank you we are trying to raise them to be kind human beings and my daughter amazes me every day with her kind little heart!

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I’m so sorry you lost your mom that is not easy I couldn’t imagine! Yes they talk to EVERYBODY and EVERYBODY talks to you :joy: so I have gotten a lot better about it over the years

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Being introverted doesn’t mean you are showing positivity and light! It’s just in your own way and I think that’s some things don’t need to be spoken. Like stickers that’s so beautiful that’s right there is more meaningful than you even can realize! You bring so much warmth to this community and I’m so happy you are here!!! You make me smile :blush:

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Thank you! You’re very sweet for saying that :heart:

Thank you I did not realize how meaningful the stickers would be to people it truly has blessed me as well with the conversations that they have brought. You bring so much warmth to this community as well I’m glad you’re here.

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as an extrovert I am somehow with an introvert and best friends are introverts I love people like you! And somehow they tolerate me :rofl:

Stickers are awesome if a cute kid handled me a uplifting sticker randomly it would make my whole day

My husband is an extrovert and my kids are too and it takes me 1 to 2 business days to recharge my social battery :joy::woman_facepalming:t2: but I have gotten alot better since having kids they drag it out of you!