# Mom-to-Mom: What I Wish I Knew **URL:** \ **Category:** MomToMomRelay\ **Tags:** newcozymom, whatiwishiknew\ **Created:** [July 11, 2026, 6:49pm UTC](https://community.momcozy.com/t/mom-to-mom-what-i-wish-i-knew/18211 "2026-07-11T18:49:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 16\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Kisal\_t](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/momcozy/user_avatar/community.momcozy.com/kisal_t/32/5392_2.png) [@Kisal\_t](https://community.momcozy.com/u/Kisal_t)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2026, 6:49pm UTC](https://community.momcozy.com/t/mom-to-mom-what-i-wish-i-knew/18211/1 "2026-07-11T18:49:11Z")
What I wish I knew before becoming a mom is that motherhood is beautiful, but it can also be incredibly challenging in ways you never expect. After welcoming my baby girl, I experienced the emotional and physical struggles of the newborn stage. Breastfeeding was a journey of love, patience, and learning, but it also came with unexpected challenges. I went through mastitis, fever, and intense body pain, and there were moments when I felt exhausted and unsure if I could keep going. But in those difficult moments, I learned how strong a mother’s love can be. Even when I was tired, hurting, and overwhelmed, I still showed up for my baby. Every feeding, every cuddle, and every little smile reminded me why I kept going.💕 ![inbound1842816009270690929](https://global.discourse-cdn.com/momcozy/original/2X/a/a413298581de536693a628094f66b86f9fd77ab9.jpeg) I wish I had known that it’s okay to ask for help, to rest, and to take care of myself too. A mother’s healing matters just as much as her baby’s happiness. To all new moms: your journey doesn’t have to be perfect. Give yourself grace, trust yourself, and remember that you are doing an incredible job. 🤍 🥰 ---
**Author:** ![Sinai](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/momcozy/user_avatar/community.momcozy.com/sinai/32/88_2.png) [@Sinai](https://community.momcozy.com/u/Sinai)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2026, 6:52pm UTC](https://community.momcozy.com/t/mom-to-mom-what-i-wish-i-knew/18211/2 "2026-07-11T18:52:36Z")
So many moms need to hear that it’s okay for motherhood to be both beautiful and incredibly hard at the same time. Breastfeeding isn’t always the easy, natural journey people expect, and going through mastitis while caring for a newborn is no small thing. You should be so proud of yourself for pushing through those challenges. Your baby is so lucky to have a mom who showed up with so much love, even on the hardest days. Sending you so much love you are stronger than you know ---
**Author:** ![Courtney](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/momcozy/user_avatar/community.momcozy.com/courtney/32/4878_2.png) [@Courtney](https://community.momcozy.com/u/Courtney)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2026, 8:17pm UTC](https://community.momcozy.com/t/mom-to-mom-what-i-wish-i-knew/18211/3 "2026-07-11T20:17:26Z")
This is great advice! There’s nothing stronger than a mothers love​❤ ---
**Author:** ![mama91](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/momcozy/user_avatar/community.momcozy.com/mama91/32/2253_2.png) [@mama91](https://community.momcozy.com/u/mama91)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2026, 8:41pm UTC](https://community.momcozy.com/t/mom-to-mom-what-i-wish-i-knew/18211/4 "2026-07-11T20:41:15Z")
Hi! Welcome to the Momcozy community! We’re happy to have you here! ❤ It is so true that a lot of us mamas feel like we have to take on everything alone. It’s so hard to ask for help. It’s so hard sometimes doing everything that needs to be done caring for a baby while exhausted and in pain. The things we do for our babies is truly amazing. Motherhood really does make us stronger! I’m sorry you went through mastisis ---
**Author:** ![Madison3](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/momcozy/user_avatar/community.momcozy.com/madison3/32/8165_2.png) [@Madison3](https://community.momcozy.com/u/Madison3)\ **Post date:** [July 12, 2026, 12:26am UTC](https://community.momcozy.com/t/mom-to-mom-what-i-wish-i-knew/18211/5 "2026-07-12T00:26:31Z")
Welcome to the Momcozy community! This post perfectly articulates becoming a mom, experiencing such fervent love, surviving those newborn trenches, and the newfound strength to keep going! ---
**Author:** ![Rachel5](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/momcozy/user_avatar/community.momcozy.com/rachel5/32/2404_2.png) [@Rachel5](https://community.momcozy.com/u/Rachel5)\ **Post date:** [July 12, 2026, 3:02am UTC](https://community.momcozy.com/t/mom-to-mom-what-i-wish-i-knew/18211/6 "2026-07-12T03:02:05Z")
Great advice! It is so hard to ask for help. ---
**Author:** ![Odalis](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/momcozy/user_avatar/community.momcozy.com/odalis/32/4145_2.png) [@Odalis](https://community.momcozy.com/u/Odalis)\ **Post date:** [July 12, 2026, 3:47am UTC](https://community.momcozy.com/t/mom-to-mom-what-i-wish-i-knew/18211/7 "2026-07-12T03:47:20Z")
The newborn stage was also very challenging for me as well, but it does get a little bit easier. I remember when I almost got mastitis and the fever was scary since I rarely get sick. 🤧 ---
**Author:** ![Cynsere](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/momcozy/user_avatar/community.momcozy.com/cynsere/32/3497_2.png) [@Cynsere](https://community.momcozy.com/u/Cynsere)\ **Post date:** [July 12, 2026, 5:10am UTC](https://community.momcozy.com/t/mom-to-mom-what-i-wish-i-knew/18211/8 "2026-07-12T05:10:48Z")
That’s one thing I struggled with is asking for help! Very well said​❤ ---
**Author:** ![Naee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/e19adc/32.png) [@Naee](https://community.momcozy.com/u/Naee)\ **Post date:** [July 12, 2026, 6:18am UTC](https://community.momcozy.com/t/mom-to-mom-what-i-wish-i-knew/18211/9 "2026-07-12T06:18:13Z")
Such a beautiful message and absolutely loveeee this picture. How baby girl is matching the flowers in the tree above is the cutest! You are very strong, keep being the superwomen you are! 😊🤍 ---
**Author:** ![Kisal\_t](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/momcozy/user_avatar/community.momcozy.com/kisal_t/32/5392_2.png) [@Kisal\_t](https://community.momcozy.com/u/Kisal_t)\ **Post date:** [July 12, 2026, 6:46am UTC](https://community.momcozy.com/t/mom-to-mom-what-i-wish-i-knew/18211/10 "2026-07-12T06:46:06Z")
Thank you ☺ ---
**Author:** ![Tori3](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/momcozy/user_avatar/community.momcozy.com/tori3/32/4600_2.png) [@Tori3](https://community.momcozy.com/u/Tori3)\ **Post date:** [July 12, 2026, 6:59am UTC](https://community.momcozy.com/t/mom-to-mom-what-i-wish-i-knew/18211/11 "2026-07-12T06:59:16Z")
Welcome to the Momcozy community! This was absolutely beautifully written! Mothers are so strong! You are doing amazing! ---
**Author:** ![Angel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/momcozy/user_avatar/community.momcozy.com/angel/32/68_2.png) [@Angel](https://community.momcozy.com/u/Angel)\ **Post date:** [July 12, 2026, 11:18pm UTC](https://community.momcozy.com/t/mom-to-mom-what-i-wish-i-knew/18211/12 "2026-07-12T23:18:08Z")
This resonates so deeply. The beautiful moments really do carry us through the absolute hardest physical struggles like mastitis. You are incredibly strong for pushing through, mama, and your little girl is so lucky to have you! 💕 And ofcourse welcome to the community mama! What a beautiful post to start. 🫶 ---
**Author:** ![Jessica2](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/momcozy/user_avatar/community.momcozy.com/jessica2/32/2282_2.png) [@Jessica2](https://community.momcozy.com/u/Jessica2)\ **Post date:** [July 12, 2026, 11:30pm UTC](https://community.momcozy.com/t/mom-to-mom-what-i-wish-i-knew/18211/13 "2026-07-12T23:30:26Z")
This absolutely!!! It’s okay to not be okay ! It’s okay to be exhausted, it’s okay to feel like you are confused or overwhelmed But we are all doing amazing and learning and growing along the way what a beautiful thing that is And also welcome mama ---
**Author:** ![Chantel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/momcozy/user_avatar/community.momcozy.com/chantel/32/111_2.png) [@Chantel](https://community.momcozy.com/u/Chantel)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2026, 10:34am UTC](https://community.momcozy.com/t/mom-to-mom-what-i-wish-i-knew/18211/14 "2026-07-13T10:34:43Z")
Welcome to the community mama! Beautifully said. We need to make sure to take care of ourselves. Especially when we are breastfeeding ---
**Author:** ![Sergi](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/momcozy/user_avatar/community.momcozy.com/sergi/32/1096_2.png) [@Sergi](https://community.momcozy.com/u/Sergi)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2026, 3:49pm UTC](https://community.momcozy.com/t/mom-to-mom-what-i-wish-i-knew/18211/15 "2026-07-13T15:49:33Z")
This is such a powerful reminder that even on the hardest days, a mother’s love keeps her going. ❤ ---
**Author:** ![Alyssa10](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/momcozy/user_avatar/community.momcozy.com/alyssa10/32/4205_2.png) [@Alyssa10](https://community.momcozy.com/u/Alyssa10)\ **Post date:** [July 16, 2026, 11:05am UTC](https://community.momcozy.com/t/mom-to-mom-what-i-wish-i-knew/18211/16 "2026-07-16T11:05:55Z")
Welcome to the community! 🤎 What a beautiful first post. Motherhood is beautifully hard.. where there is so much love, there’s often stress too. Thank you for sharing your heart with us. I can’t wait to read more of your posts and see you around in the other discussions!