Labor is such a different experience for everyone, but I feel like one of the best labor plans is for healthy mom and healthy baby! If you have too many expectations, I think it can set you up for failure because there are some things that are out of your control and depend on your body and baby.
I will say my labor plan was healthy mom and baby… epidural if possible, and in the moment, I don’t think I could have handled the pain without it! Instead of pain, I slept for the two hours prior to pushing 