Postpartum blues and trust issues 😕

Hey mamas I’ve missed you all so so much ! I know it’s been a while since I’ve been on here but things have been so crazy this past month :confused: since I left my ex things have been really messy for me. He pretty much left me without a car as well so I had to buy a new one​:sob: all I gotta say is it has been hectic​:smiling_face_with_tear: but something I wish I knew before I had babies and before postpartum and all this is definitely the postpartum blues and the trust issues but for some reason, I don’t feel like I had trust issues for a bad reason I had trust issues because he was actually being weird you know​:grimacing::sob: gladly I found out and left him so here we are happy, healthy with an awesome new car and two beautiful boys​:heart_eyes: but let me tell you those postpartum blues after you have your babies is just horrible​:confused: nobody told me that I was gonna see a bird smooshed on the road and I was gonna cry like there was no tomorrow no joke you guys I don’t know what was wrong with me​:rofl::rofl: but all I gotta say is I hope you all are OK. I miss you all. I’m gonna try to be more active now. I promise and I love you guys and I’m so glad to have this community and Momcozy and for all of you guys to be here for me and listen to me whenever I need you thank you. I love you all. :face_holding_back_tears::sparkling_heart:

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Hello Mama, best thing you did , preserve your peace of mind and tranquility. And yes postpartum blues are horrible especially when you have no real support. Your baby and car are beautiful, and you deserve the outmost very best.

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Hi Mama! Congratulations on the new car. I’m sorry that it’s with this circumstances tho. You are incredibly strong. Baby blues are hard especially with little support. If you ever need someone to talk to we are here

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Welcome back, mama! Congrats on getting a new car and getting out of the situation that took your peace of mind away. You are incredibly strong for walking away and starting fresh. Those postpartum emotions are so real. We are happy you and your boys are thriving! :heart_hands:

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Such a precious pic of your little one! :heart:Nice truck!! I can’t believe he left you without a vehicle, especially with you having the kids! Ugh! So glad you found out what was going on before things got too bad though. I know it’s a lot to take on all at once, so it’s understandable that you’ve been busy. Sounds like you are starting to piece your life back together a little bit, and that’s great! I hope the postpartum depression isn’t too bad, please get help if you need it.

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Welcome back! Look at you getting a new car! You are rocking it momma I know it is hard being on your own but you’ve got this!

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Hey mama!! Congratulations on your new car. It definitely takes some time to find your balance again after having a baby but also leaving a relationship.

I don’t think I’ve seen you on the fb pages or here yet but we miss you tooo :sweat_smile::heart_hands:t3:

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Thank you so so much :face_holding_back_tears::sparkling_heart:

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Thank you I really really appreciate that life has been a mess :sob:

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Thanks girl I’m so glad I have you guys to share this with :face_holding_back_tears:

I’m currently in therapy for all this and it honestly does help :face_holding_back_tears: but my gosh things have still been hard and especially doing it alone with 2 kids now :smiling_face_with_tear: but thank you :face_holding_back_tears::sparkling_heart:

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It’s scary but I can’t believe I’m doing it :confused::face_holding_back_tears::sparkling_heart:

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Girl I been soooo incognito now it’s like I went missing but I’m gonna try to be more active on everything :face_holding_back_tears::sparkling_heart:

That’s great you’re in therapy. I know it’s a process, but things will get better. You are so strong! You got this girl!:heart:

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Congrats on the new car!!! Very happy you are in a better place!! Sounds like you know you did the right thing and came out on the other side on top :heart::face_blowing_a_kiss::folded_hands:t4::heart_hands:t3::flexed_biceps:t3:

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Welcome back, mama! Congratulations on your new truck and new start. Even though you’ve been handed quite a lot, it sounds like your taking hold and doing you’re best for your family and that’s something to be so proud of​:yellow_heart:

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Welcome back! Sorry about your situation, the truck looks great and your baby is adorable. I hope this opens the door to only good change! You deserve peace of mind.

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Congrats on the new car!

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Hello, nice to meet you.

I am sorry to read all the things that happen to you. I am glad you have a new car now for your little ones. Please feel free to reach out if you need someone to talk to. You are strong and things will get better. :mending_heart:

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