It’s been a rough day today. Unfortunately, baby wants to be held all the time. And my back is killing me. Looking at the baby my toddler wants to be carried as well and I am not able to do that. It breaks my heart looking at his sad face.
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Aweeee I’m so sorry 
have you looked into a ring sling by chance? I know it’s a lot of I see a mom in my group carrier her toddler on her back and carry her baby in her front I know that sounds like a lot so don’t feel pressured by any means I just thought it was funny in a good way
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I’m sorry you had a rough day I hope tomorrow is better for you! My 3 year old has started that this week as well. I can’t hold him because he is so heavy but I know it’s because he wants attention and feels left out so I asked him if he could come sit with me and the baby and we would watch his favorite show. When I got the baby to nap I sat down and played with magnatiles and monster trucks with him and it has helped. I try to include them in getting diapers wipes burp cloths or anything for the baby so they feel like big helpers. You’re doing a great job momma you got this!
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I understand how you’re feeling I can sympathize with you! Just here to send you happy thoughts, you are doing awesome!
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That sounds exhausting, I’m sorry. It’s heartbreaking when you feel divided, but you are only one person doing your absolute best. You are a doing your best. Be gentle with yourself tonight. xoxo
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Oh no, that’s so sad! 
That must be so hard when he wants to be held too!
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That sounds so interesting to wear both kids like that! I’m going to keep that in mind for future reference! I bet it looks comical too!
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Right I was like OMG how are you doing this right now!!! Also taking notes for my future too!!!
@Momcozy can we make a ring sling ???
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I feel for you. It’s hard when they both want you. I usually end up sitting on the couch until they get their fill then go do what I need with whoever needs some extra cuddles.
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