So when my husband and I met we said we wanted 2 or 4 kids. We are currently at 2. Now the debate is to have more or not. We also have fertility issues so getting pregnant is hit or miss. My husband did tell our neighbor that he wants 2 more
I don’t think I’m done either. I miss the newborn stage.
How many kids do you have and how many do you want in total?
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I always said two and my husband wanted 4 but we both decided we weren’t done at 2 and have a 4 month old and I planned on getting my tubes tied after her but we can’t decide if we are done yet or if we want one more
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I am very content with my one but as an only child I feel obliged to give my son a sibling, I got kinda lonely as a kid! I know my heart would be thrilled to have two 
It does scare me a tiny bit just being overwhelmed and stuff tho
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Yea it’s a hard decision to have another one. How’s having 3? We will be grateful if we are blessed with another one. I don’t know about 4 tho.
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With 2 you kinda embrace the craziness. It is a bit of a learning curve. I’m not questioning my self as much. still do with my first tho which is weird but he also goes through the stages first.
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She is the easiest most chill baby we have had that’s the only reason I would consider another. It really wasn’t as hard as a transition as I thought it would be she just fits right in the family like she has always been here
That makes me feel a bottle more at ease! I know it would be great and honestly motherhood is definitely a learning curve in general so it would probably be great
We always said 2-3 children 2-3 years apart. Covid happened right after our first was born and then I was diagnosed with PCOS when I missed a period when trying to get pregnant with our second. We thought I was pregnant but then every test came up negative. So nothing went as planned. There is almost a 6 year gap between our two children. When my pregnancy ended in preeclampsia and a NICU stay for our second we decided we would stop at two.