Hey mamas! Iāve missed you all ! You guys really help me thanks to Momcozy I have a little community of mamas that understand me and I actually feel like I have someone to talk toā
So I know itās been a while since Iāve posted.. but sadly I just went through the worst thing I possibly could and I feel like I can trust you all and share on here safely so here it goes !
So just the other night (about 3 nights ago) I found out I was getting cheated on. At 6 months postpartum, I never thought this would happen to me. Why me ? I donāt understand why. I was always good to him I took care of him and I gave him his first son. I guess I wasnāt enough. And the worst part is that he blamed me. Not even gonna say the nasty mean things he said to me cause it was too much cussing and just not appropriate! But here I am now. A single mother of two boys. How am I gonna do it ?? I donāt know Iām scared and really hurt. I feel the pain deeply in my chest and heart. But Iām trying to stay strong for my boys. This is just embarrassing.
I know this topic isnāt to share whatās going on in my life but I have nobody but you amazing beautiful mamas in here and Momcozy . but I guess something that WILL REALLY HELP ME THIS SUMMER is definitely going to be more family supportā he left me with no car which means I canāt get to any of the boysā appointments or even mine. Things are about to get real and very stressful and difficult for me! But Iām praying for better and easier days for me fast cause my boys donāt deserve a sad mommy! Thank you Momcozy for making this for us mamas! I now have someone to share my mom adventures with and most importantly someone to just talk to
I am so sorry that happened to you, you do not deserve that and it wasnāt your fault! He has issues with himself and blames you so that he doesnāt have to feel guilty about what he did. That is on him he made the choice so please donāt blame yourself. You are a great momma to your boys and you are strong you can do this! This is a place to share what is going on in your life so your fellow moms can support you and lift you up so donāt feel bad about talking about your problems thatās what we are here for. I will be praying for you and for your sons as you navigate trying to figure everything out.
I wanted to share these verses with you:
He heals the brokenhearted and bandages their wounds. Psalm 147:3
Donāt be afraid, for I am with you. Donāt be discouraged, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will hold you up with my victorious right hand. Isaiah 41:10
This means a lot thank you so much please do keep us in your prayers I donāt want to feel like this anymore and thank you as well for the verses Iām over here crying I just really donāt think anyone deserves to get cheated on. But I hope better days are coming for me thank you again !
Mama, I am so sorry for what you are going through. I donāt have the right words to express the pain I feel reading your story, but I want you to know that you are not alone. I deeply admire the courage with which you are facing this; I know the road ahead isnāt easy and that there will be some very heavy days, but believe me, you will make it through for yourself and for your children.
āEven though we are physically far apart, we are here to support you in whatever you need. Thank you for trusting us and for opening your heart in such an intimate way. I want to remind you of something very important you are human, and as such, we arenāt perfect, nor are we exempt from living through painful situations, but that doesnāt define your worth. You are doing an incredible job as a mother and as a person, even if your partner hasnāt had the capacity to see it and prefers to blame others instead of owning up to their own actions. Be very proud of the woman and the mother that you are.
āIām new here, but I am so happy to be here and to be able to be by your side, even if itās from a distance. You are doing amazing, step by step, one day at a time. Iām sending you a huge hug wherever you are you have us here for whatever you need.
Hey girl, you can do this! This community is a great strong community and come together for one another, you are kicking butt fighting through all of the emotions for your babies. Iām sorry you have to go through such a crappy situation!
Better days are coming for you I truly believe that Iām so sorry that you are hurting so bad right now and I know the hardest part is knowing there is nothing you can do right now to fix it but I promise you that It will get better with time and you will come out of this stronger than you can even imagine. You deserve the world and so do your boys so donāt settle for less than! It takes alot to share you hurt with others and I am so proud of you for sharing. Lean on God and your family right now and they will help you get through this. I will be praying for yall!
Thank you so so much you are so kind I donāt really have any friends so this means a lot to me itās nice to just hear kind words and no judgment I truly appreciate you!
Thatās absolutely horrible! Iām so sorry you are going through this. Him cheating on you is definitely not your fault! Heās a disloyal, ungratefulā¦Iāll stop myself right now. I have some choice words for him for treating you like this. He made a vow when you got married, and he broke it. He should have manned up and talked to you instead of cheating. I know things are really hard now. You have a lot of decisions to make, and a lot to figure out. Your whole life has been turned upside down! Iām glad you have some family to fall back on. That will make such a big difference having family support during a difficult time like this. Hold your head up high, and know that you will get through this! Things will be difficult for awhile, but you will find a way, and you will be stronger because of it! Your kids are lucky to have such an amazing mother that cares so much for them!
You are so welcome mama itās a pleasure and like I tell you again I have no words, the only thing I know is that you are not alone and we are here to walk with you through this process, I hope today you are a bit more peaceful, that your little ones are doing well and I know there will be moments where you feel lonely but remember that we are here in the community and if you want to talk or simply vent you can do it freely, this is a community where we donāt judge or make judgments we simply support, so Iām delighted to have you as a friend, I donāt have friends either and my only close virtual friend is Jessy, Iām grateful to all of you for letting me be here in the community so mama you are doing great, sending you lots of strength and a big hug, we are going hand in hand with you in this process
Absolutely! And as much as things suck right now, you will be stronger because of it. God works in mysterious ways, so try your best to be positive and trust His plan for you
I felt your post so profoundly. I am so so sorry that youāre going through but Iām glad that you have this community to lean on. Definitely sending healing and positive vibes your way mama!! You are strong and beautiful and everything will work itself out the way itās suppose to.
First off I canāt believe I didnāt see this post!!! Ugh my heart is aching for you! Everything you shared you are always doing the absolute most! Feeding cooking cleaning loving and donāt you DARE say you werenāt enough! He wasnāt enough! He has issues with himself and he knows it. You are beautiful and just pour everything into caring for your family and people you love! I really hope you know we are here for you, Iām so happy you felt comfortable enough to share with us because we are a community and just because we arenāt in person doesnāt take anything from our love and support for you.
Ohhhhhhh I have some choice words for this man but Iāll keep them inside. Some people self depreciate and Iāll never understand the psychology behind it especially to a postpartum mother but AGAIN I REPEAT YOU ARE MORE THAN ENOUGH YOU ARE EVERYTHING. Heās going to regret the biggest fumble of his life trust me, Iāve been there before and it is so hard but you got this! Donāt let anyone dim your light.
Thanks Jessica that means a lot sorry Iāve taken so long to respond I honestly havenāt been the best at all I have my ups and downs but lately itās really been hitting me
Donāt ever apologize for taking time for yourself!! I can only imagine!!! your world has been turned upside down and thatās soooo unfair!!!
That all the time you need and remember you are so much more beautiful and special than however you felt or have been feeling ! you will see it again and be like oh yeah I am that girl
Iām a little late to this post, but I still wanted to check in and send you some love. I truly hope that as the days have passed, youāve started to realize that being cheated on is not a reflection of your worth or what you lackedā¦ it was a choice he made.
Especially postpartumā¦ my heart hurts for you. That season is already so vulnerable physically, mentally, and emotionally. Itās a time when you deserve support, care, reassurance, and someone helping carry the weight with youā¦ not adding to it.
I hope little by little your thoughts shift from, āIāve been a good spouse, I did everything I could, why me?ā to āI know I showed up with love and good intentions, and his choices do not take that away from me.ā
Please be gentle with yourself during this time. You are worthy, you are enough, and you deserve to be loved in a way that feels safe and supportive.
Iāll be praying for healing, peace, and brighter days ahead for you. And I hope you know youāre not alone weāre here for you as a community.
so here it goes !
he left me with no car which means I canāt get to any of the boysā appointments or even mine. Things are about to get real and very stressful and difficult for me! But Iām praying for better and easier days for me fast cause my boys donāt deserve a sad mommy! Thank you Momcozy for making this for us mamas! I now have someone to share my mom adventures with and most importantly someone to just talk to 
I truly appreciate you!
Definitely sending healing and positive vibes your way mama!! You are strong and beautiful and everything will work itself out the way itās suppose to. 
my heart is aching for you! Everything you shared you are always doing the absolute most! Feeding cooking cleaning loving and donāt you DARE say you werenāt enough! He wasnāt enough! He has issues with himself and he knows it. You are beautiful and just pour everything into caring for your family and people you love! I really hope you know we are here for you, Iām so happy you felt comfortable enough to share with us because we are a community and just because we arenāt in person doesnāt take anything from our love and support for you.
I truly hope that as the days have passed, youāve started to realize that being cheated on is not a reflection of your worth or what you lackedā¦ it was a choice he made.