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wish I didn’t feel guilty for wanting a moment alone… while loving them this deeply.
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I feel like that too sometimes. I can’t bring myself to turn my daughter away if she wants to be held. I’m afraid that if I don’t hold her when she wants, that she won’t want to come to me anymore. Some people say it’s spoiling your baby, but it’s actually just showing them that you will always comfort them when they need it. I’ll want her to know I’ll always be there for her, even when it’s inconvenient. I do still need my me time…it’s challenging to figure this out sometimes for sure!
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I just said this exact same thing! The guilt is so real. Remember you are HUMAN it’s completely natural to want time to yourself to reset the mind and still miss the baby snuggles all at the same time
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I know they tell me the same thing that I spoil my babies but honestly I just also want to hold them as much as I can they will grow up and they will not ask for hugs no more
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Thank you for this
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Exactly! I want to hold her as much as possible 
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I feel this it’s always hard not to feel guilty about it but you have to have a minute for yourself it helps you to reset and be a better parent.
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