Balancing the constant needs of a newborn with the demands of work feels like being pulled in two directions at once. Anyone else struggle with work and newborn?
Yesss it is so hard!! It does get easier as you figure things out but it is very hard. People just don’t talk about it!
I went through this too when I went back to work… it was really hard at first ![]()
I feel you… it’s like I have two full-time jobs and zero breaks
As a first-time mom who’s breastfeeding, my biggest advice is: don’t stress yourself too much
it takes time for both you and baby to learn.
Feed on demand, not by the clock, and trust your body. Stay hydrated and try to rest whenever you can (I know it’s hard
).
If pumping helps you, it’s totally okay — it gave me so much flexibility. Also, don’t be afraid to ask for help if something doesn’t feel right.
You’re doing better than you think ![]()
Yesssss! It’s so difficult. I have to set very clear boundaries. When I go home, I am not working from home. I am not staying late either. I have a time for work and a time for family and the two don’t need to intertwine!