I wish i knew

How all the dynamics change with all the family members after baby’s arrival. Everyone will ask how the baby is doing? No one will ask about mama.

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This! I wish people realized how rude that was. My mother in law would say we’re just here to see the baby and laugh when they came to visit with my first baby and I always thought it was so rude.

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I agree, the mom is also important. I was rarely ask how I was, more focus was on the baby. :joy::pensive_face:

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This!! After my second I started to realize it so when I got pregnant with my 3rd no one knew but those around me until 2 months after I had already given birth, then I posted pictures lol

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That part. Well, sending you the biggest hug. And you may have already given birth but how are you doing today, mama?

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So true!!! :heart::heart: I hope you are doing great today mom!!!

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Yesss! Or everyone will be so excited but then not involved later.

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Yes! I found my close family was really focused on me my sisters especially but everyone else is about the baby. I hope you are doing well today - and we are always here to listen! :smiling_face::slightly_smiling_face:

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