Nighttime feeds are where my husband and I definitely share the load. He keeps the bottles and bottle warmer on his side of the bed, and I’ve got diapers and my pump/pump parts on my side. I’ll wake up and change her, then wake him up to feed, burp and keep her upright while I pump. This way a nighttime wake up/feed takes 30-40 minutes rather than just by myself taking well over and hour and a half. I’m about to head out of town for a few days with the baby to visit my sister and my husband has to stay home and work. This is the first time leaving him, and I’m nervous I won’t have anyone to help share the load. 
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I am incredibly happy you have his support in this! It really makes a difference having a partner split tasks and like you said share the load.
It was so hard when my partner had to leave for a week for work but we did it!! We got into a routine. I hope it goes well ! You got this !
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That is so awesome that he is able to help you! You’ve got this momma you will do great on your trip!
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Teamwork makes the dream work! 
Just take it one wake-up at a time, and remember your sister is there to back you up during the day! Safe travels mama! xoxo
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Love a supportive partner! Wish you luck on your solo endeavor.
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You got this! Just stay calm
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I can totally understand this! When my daughter was 1 month old, my husband had to go out of town for work for 2 months. I had to take care of my baby and my elderly mother-in-law on my own, and it was a lot of work. After awhile I got used to it. Whenever my husband helps out now, it feels so strange not to have my daughter attached to my hip, but I appreciate the help. It was definitely intimidating when he first left though. I bet your family will be happy to help with your daughter! You got this!
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So cute!!
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