I feel like I am constantly falling behind as well and wish I had a little help but I try to give myself a little grace and will get to the laundry piles eventually wishing for help for you!
Chores are a constant game of catch up. Some days I get an entire room cleaned. Others I don’t do any cleaning at all. I’m so afraid to miss out on my daughter’s development if I’m cleaning all the time. It’s okay to let things go for a little while. I don’t have much support either, but I have learned to either use a playpen, barricade baby in the room I’m cleaning, or carry her as I do chores. Everything just takes a little longer, but that’s okay. This is also the only time my daughter gets to use her toy box. If I’m not cleaning, all she gets is the 9 toys I keep on rotation in the living room.