Postpartum has been one of the hardest things I have had to go through. It’s all the emotions hitting you all at once where you can’t hide. It’s getting frustrated with yourself because you think you’re not doing enough. The getting out of bed because a little human now depends so much on you. The sleepless nights. The constant mood swings. The dirty looks when you do things differently than the others. The breastfeeding challenges, not producing enough milk, not latching, not feeding enough. The stares, because you decided to give your baby formula. The cries from a tired less baby. Everything just crashing down on you. The thoughts of things not getting better.Everyone tells you things will get better eventually, but how long until better comes.
Postpartum is hard! Hoping that it gets easier for you just know that you are enough and you are doing enough! I got comments with my first about having to supplement formula from my SIL and she was so rude about it constantly then I over heard her say one day that she didn’t get to make it to a year she only made it to 6 months and it made me upset that she treated me that way and tried to shame me about it. I wish that I had ignored her and didn’t let it bother me so much and focused on how good I was doing as a mom. You know what is best for your baby and you’re doing a great job! Try to ignore the negativity and focus on the positives 
It is a lot to go through. I don’t think I’ve been this emotional since I was a teenager! I used to be so aware of my emotions before having my baby, and was easily able to control them. Yeah that’s out the window now. These feelings are intense! I’m sorry other people are giving you a hard time and judging you like that. It’s none of their business and you’re doing what’s best for your baby. Why does everyone always feel like we need advice about OUR baby. You’re doing such a great job with your precious little baby
Thank you so much for your kind words. I’m glad someone else has been through what i’m going through not in a sense where I’m happy you went through it but to know that someone else out there has had a similar experience and that i can speak up without feeling judged. I’m sorry to hear that you had that journey especially with someone who is supposed to provide comfort for you during a special yet stressful time. Its always the ones who don’t succeed at what you are that have the most input.
I hate that you are going through it I just wanted you to know you’re not alone and that if your baby is fed and happy that’s all that matters! You are doing a great job and I’m proud of you!
These emotions are endless, sometimes I want to turn them all off but it’s impossible! I’ve had depression all my life so this has been a challenge for sure. Every one somehow grows an opinion when you have a baby! Blessing sent your way —you’re doing an amazing job mommy!!
I’m sorry you’ve been dealing with depression. I’ve been there off and on throughout my life, and struggle with bipolar 2. It’s definitely crazy how everyone just suddenly thinks they know exactly what your baby needs. They don’t hesitate to tell you either! Blessings sent your way too!
Omg I could only imagine how hard it is for you imagine it’s already hard enough to regulate emotions on a daily basis. Women carry so many burdens it amazes me sometimes. Just keep doing what you’re doing and if isn’t the best decision we’ll at least they’re yours hehe.
It’s those kind words from someone who is going through the same feelings that make you feel sane. Thank you I appreciate you and I appreciate the time you took to read my post.
There is no set time for things to get better and at some point feels like it’s never going to happen but it does slowly but surely and sometimes we need help and sometimes we don’t but nothing makes you weak in this! You are strong so incredibly strong and every choice you made was amazing and you are doing great!! Hang in there and know you are not alone
It feels like a never ending cycle. Don’t get me wrong I love being a mom it’s all I ever wanted it’s just these days seem long and the nights seem even longer. I appreciate the acknowledgment as moms you know we never really get that especially when we need it the most. I am more than positive you’re a super mom! So keep up the great work.