Okay so here goes my second wish 
recently I’ve been noticing how sad I’ve been and how much of a hard time I’ve been having with communicating to my partner and family when I need help 
so i really wish to just have better communication with my partner and family to be able to get the help that I need even if it’s just to take a simple shower or to go tinkle 
I know I need help and I should not be ashamed ! But my gosh it’s is hard ! I hope my days get easier and yours do too mamas ! 
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It’s so crazy seeing things from a different perspective! I’m 2 months pp & I was building resentment towards my husbands family because they never stop coming over & never stop calling & texting. I felt like they were being overbearing and not letting me be a mom. But reading this & talking to my friends makes me realize I should be grateful & accept the help that many other moms wish for. Praying you get your help & a break soon 
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I was like that too for awhile. It’s so hard to ask for help because we feel like we should be able to handle it all. One thing I did for going to the bathroom and bathing is get a reclining rocking bouncer to keep in there. It’s great to set them in after taking a bath with them while you dry off too. Once they outgrow that, put a dining chair with a booster seat on it in the bathroom. I am soooo glad I did this!!! It is such a lifesaver!!!
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Thank you 
Yeah I have the bouncer and all but even just a shower completely on my own would be so so nice
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It is definitely nice when you don’t have to rush through your shower and an actually enjoy it
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It can be incredibly hard to ask for help and then even accept it! But I say this all the time we are just moms we are humans !!! If we don’t take care of ourselves how can we take care of others,
Now I need to learn to take my own advice 
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I struggle to ask for help too, especially with my husband since English is my second language. Sometimes I feel like maybe he doesn’t understand me, lol. I just wanted to make you laugh a little. It’s easier said than done, but try to ask. If no one listens, scream it out. If that’s still not effective, cry it out while also screaming.
I hope this doesn’t offend you, but I’ll leave this here:
Psalm 34:17 “The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears them; He delivers them from all their troubles. In my distress I called upon the Lord; I cried to my God for help.”
I hope you get the help and rest you need mama. hugs
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Girl yes I hate having to rush all I want is to just enjoy and relax ! Sometime I wanna shave in peace but can’t even do that
Girl tell me about it I be giving out the best advice and NEVER take it for myself 
I love this ! it’s beautiful I pray to him everyday to calm my mind as the postpartum depression hasn’t been so easy on my but o love this thank you !
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I totally understand that. It’s hard but you have to keep your own cup full before you can fill the cup of others. There’s no shame in asking for helping hand. Most are happy to. Adorable picture btw, my son has the same onesie 
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Things will get better give it time having a newborn is hard. My daughter’s Keep up the hard work father and I struggle with communication as well.
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I feel like I just overthink too much I need to stop 
but thank you !!
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Shaving is such a luxury nowadays. I haven’t shaved my legs in 2 weeks!
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You have to take care of yourself too! I know it’s hard to ask for help I don’t like to do it either but you will wear yourself out having to do it all (ask me how I know
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duudeee and I’ve been trying to wax too lately and let me tell you girl I waxed HALF OF ONE LEG and baby started crying had to stop so now I’m half Chewbacca on one leg and full on Chewbacca on the other leg
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Girl I’ve been wearing myself out way too much these past few days there’s just too much to do at home and everybody kinda sucks it’s like they only help when they feel like it /:
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Been there! Glad to hear I’m not the only one with the Chewbacca nickname!
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