Postpartum, listening to your body

My postpartum tip is to absolutely listen to your body and follow your discharge instructions.

A couple of weeks after my C-section, I noticed a really uncomfortable area on my labia. It seemed strange because I’d had a C-section, but it was very sore. I got in the shower to clean up, and when I got out, I suddenly felt nauseous. I told my husband, “I don’t know what’s going on, but I feel like I have the flu. I feel like I have a fever, but maybe it’s just because I took a really hot shower.”

Earlier that day, I had actually thrown away my discharge paperwork. I remember glancing at it before tossing it and seeing that if I had a fever of 101.5 or higher, I needed to go to the hospital.

My husband noticed I was getting chills and was really concerned. I kept saying, “I probably just have the flu. I really don’t want to go to the hospital just for them to tell me I have COVID or the flu.”

Thankfully, my husband didn’t let it go. He convinced me to call my doctor, and they told me to go straight to the emergency room.

I was so reluctant because I had a two-year-old and a newborn at home. I had to bring my pump, be away from my baby, and I honestly thought I’d be sitting there for hours just to be told I had a virus.

Instead, they found that I had cellulitis in three different areas, and my uterus was infected after my C-section. While I was there, my blood pressure suddenly skyrocketed. They kept checking it, and when they couldn’t get it under control, I was rushed to the ICU. I ended up spending a week in the hospital with postpartum preeclampsia, something I didn’t even know could happen after giving birth.

The doctor told me I had timed it perfectly because I couldn’t actually feel that my blood pressure was dangerously high. If I had ignored those symptoms, brushed them off as the flu, or stayed home, things could have turned out very differently.

Overall tip: Never ignore postpartum symptoms, even if they seem small or unrelated. Trust your instincts, follow your discharge instructions, and if something feels off, call your doctor. It’s always better to be checked and have it be nothing than to miss something serious.

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Heyy!! Congratulations on your bundle of joy! And oh my goodness reading your post hit home for me. I just gave birth to my 3rd child a little over 2 months ago. With my very first child whom is now 14. I had preeclampsia with that pregnancy, with my second pregnancy I didn’t develop preeclampsia or anything else. And with my third my OB closely monitored me so we could stay a step ahead of developing preeclampsia. With that being said, I was made to take baby aspirin once daily throughout the pregnancy but I ended up being diagnosed with gestational diabetes. :frowning: I was so afraid of developing exactly what you wrote about above. I ended up being induced due to an ER visit for my blood pressure being elevated and pain underneath my right breast (a burning sensation) and having an ultrasound of that area only to find I had a TON of gallstones :confused: so on May 12th I was induced with a diagnosis of gestational diabetes and gestational hypertension. How are you now? Have you recovered fairly well?

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Oh my goodness! What a whirlwind!!! I hear so many woman finding gallstones during pregnancy, I wonder what the connection is or it’s just that much of a coincidence that it happens at that time. I also had gestational diabetes. You are a warrior, definitely a lot harder than I ever imagined. So happy your doctor was keeping an eye your blood pressure and you’re able to get quick and appropriate care! Funny story my daughter was born with gallstones- how weird! It ultimately let me go down crazy rabbit hole gestational diabetes, and small stones. I found some interesting data I’ve been nothing too concrete.

I’m now at your postpartum and I am still healing in some areas but doing a lot better.

How are you doing, mama? You are straight in trenches right now!

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Super scary momma. Great advice :heart::heart::heart::heart: so glad you are ok and you both listened to your body

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This is such an important message to share!! LISTEN TO YOUR BODY!!! i know exactly how you must have felt, you need to push through you have babies to take care of but at the end of the day you gotta take care of you to take care of them and what an amazing husband for pushing you to investigate further!

I’m so sorry you had to go through this but I’m so happy you are here to write this message to the rest of us

Thankyou Barb this is again so important

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I know that can be scary I’m so glad you listen to yourself and listen to your body

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Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I had both preeclampsia during pregnancy and postpartum, so I know how scary and unpredictable it can be!! I’m love that you have such an attentive husband by your side. Wishing you continued health and so much joy with your little ones. :white_heart:

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Thank you!!! I was so scared of preeclampsia, I had not clue it was still a thing postpartum!

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I remember the staff saying that this delivery but you’re right I’m not sure I recall it with my last deliveries. :heart: So glad you’re ok!!

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This is so important to know. I had high blood pressure too. I am happy to know that you are fine now. Thanks for sharing your story. Love the picture :heart:

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So glad you’re ok!!

I didn’t listen to my body and tried to rush the healing process like it was a vaginal birth! I had to sit my butt right back down after I hurt myself.

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That’s really scary and so glad you went in to get checked out!! Great reminder to all!

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That is so scary!! I’m so glad you listened to your instincts and called your doctor!

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Thank you!! Yes I was just thinking about all the need for me at home , I almost didn’t go. I’m so thankful he could take care for both kids too while I was there.

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That is so scary! I’m so glad he pushed you to go get seen!

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I had post partum preeclampsia too and had to be put on bp meds it is such a scary scary thing!! As moms I feel like we’re always taking care of everyone else that we often dismiss our own issues, but I’m so so glad you listened to your instincts and can now recover so you can get in all the lovely baby time!! :heart_hands:t2::heart_hands:t2:

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Such good advice to share because it is so important and can really help a momma who had no idea what to look for! I’m sorry you had to go through that I know it was scary glad you are doing better!

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Oh goodness! You really went through it!! I’m happy you are okay now :sparkles::yellow_heart::yellow_heart:

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Thank you :heart::heart:

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