The Strugle feeling alone and no Real support

I’m thinking about buying another Momcozy M5 because one of my pumps is already broken. Honestly, I’m feeling really frustrated because everyone keeps trying to tell me how to breastfeed and I feel like I can’t even breathe. My husband is also listening to them, and all of this is making me feel even more stressed.Me pumping despite the tiredness, the pain and the stress , while everybody is sleeping and wont have sleep depravation. I just hope not to get post-partum blues. The only one that is keeping me going is my Little princess

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I’m so sorry you’re dealing with that :people_hugging: Breastfeeding is already hard enough without everyone giving unsolicited advice.

Trust yourself you know what’s best for you and your baby sending a big hug​:purple_heart:

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Thank you so much for your cheering and support . Im loosing my mind and trying not to. I have no support and Even for my sleepless nights. Its like I have my baby one my Own. But she is my world so I keep it up for her :pink_heart::two_hearts:

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You’re carrying so much, please know that you’re doing an incredible job, even on the days when it doesn’t feel like it. Your baby is so lucky to have a mom who loves her this deeply.

I hope you remember to give yourself grace,you deserve support too, and I truly hope things get easier for you soon​:heart_hands:t2:

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Thank you sooo much! It means the world to me ! I cannot thank you enough for your cheering. I will try to. Thank you so much and I hope it gets easier soon​:pink_heart:

Awh I’m so sorry you are going through this. It’s definitely frustrating having others put their input in even when they feel like they are giving advice.

Do what you feel is right :heart_hands:t3:

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I hear you, mama, and your feelings are so valid. Before you buy a new M5, try reaching out to Momcozy customer support! If it’s under warranty, they might replace the broken part/motor for free. Pumping alone in the middle of the night while exhausted and overwhelmed is whole-body heavy, especially when you feel like everyone has an opinion except actual support. You are doing an incredible job showing up for your baby girl. Please take a deep breath and remind yourself that you know what’s best for you and your baby. Sending you so much strength right now and a hugs. :people_hugging:

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Thank you so much cause the are almost making me lose my mind

Thank you so much love :pink_heart::pink_heart:! :sob::sob: Thank you for the support, the advice, and for being there ! I cannot thank you enough. Alright I will try reaching out to them and see what option I have ! Thank you so much

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You know what is best for you and your baby don’t let the opinions of others get you down or feel like you aren’t doing a good enough job! You’re doing amazing momma! Breastfeeding/pumping is hard and We are here to support you and help you in any way that we can please don’t feel like you are alone! I’m sending you a hug :hugs: reach out to customer service about your pump they are great about replacing them if you are having trouble with them. Take a deep breath momma you’ve got this!

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Trust your gut love! I completely understand where you are coming from. I know it’s hard now but in time it will get easier!!

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:sob::sob::sob:Thank you sooo much dear :pink_heart::pink_heart:! I’m laviking words to express my gratitude​:pink_heart::pink_heart::pink_heart:! It means so much to me. Thank you for helping me not to lose my mind and boost my confidence.i can not thank you enough

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@Sinai @Rachel5 @Cynsere @Tori3 @Angel Thank you from the bottom of my heart! You guys become family to me​:pink_heart::pink_heart:. @Momcozy thank you for créatine the community and creating a safe place that helps me and surely do help lots of others too​:pink_heart::pink_heart:. From the bottom of my heart thank you

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I was in your shoes 6 years ago and I wish that I wouldn’t have let people and their opinions get me down and make me feel like I wasn’t doing enough for my baby they kept pushing formula and I don’t want you to feel that way! You are doing enough and you are doing a great job!

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You are so sweet! I am so thankful for this group as well the mommas are so supportive and we feel like one big family I have never seen a group quite like this it truly is special!

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:pink_heart::pink_heart::pink_heart::pink_heart:I really appreciate. And yes the do make me feel like I dont know what’s best for my child . I’m doing it all , breastfeeding , pumping . Every way I can feed my child for her to grow I do it . The worst parts is my husband who is supposed to be supportive just Mostly agrees to them, repeat over and over every New information his families give, and just want to sleep and enjoy his Life. Even please can you hold the baby while i pump milk he calls it unseful demands. He doesnt want to change diapers or to be wake up when he sleeps , and still expect me to take care of his food.´I truly appreciate this safe place . Its me, my baby, myself , herself and us​:pink_heart:

I definitely suggest reaching out to momcozy as well! They just replaced a product for me that broke ! They are so good. Support@momcozy.com

As for the stress and sleepless nights, just know that having baby fed is the best. I know breastfeeding is so hard and exhausting and constant. I’ve had to formula feed all my kids because I don’t have enough supply. They are just too hungry. If you have to supplement with formula then it’s not a horrible thing. Your mental health is so important. If you’re overly stressed then that can hurt your supply. Be good to yourself momma. :heart::heart::heart::face_blowing_a_kiss::face_blowing_a_kiss::face_blowing_a_kiss: you’re doing great

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Sometimes mamas don’t need advice… they just need someone to listen. :brown_heart: Thank you for sharing your frustrations. I know it’s not easy & some days feel so much heavier than others. But you’re absolutely right… that sweet little face makes it all worth it and gives you the strength to keep going. Sending you so much love. :folded_hands:t3::brown_heart:

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Thank you so much dear ! It really is a relief for me to be able to talk able it

Thank you soooo muchhhh love for all the advice and support ! It really helps a lot :infinity::infinity::infinity::infinity::infinity::infinity::pink_heart::pink_heart::two_hearts::pink_heart::two_hearts::pink_heart: